The relationship preparation platform that transforms chance encounters into destiny. Because true love shouldn't be left to chance.
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94% Match Confidence
Found her at her favorite latte spot
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Our comprehensive toolkit ensures you're never caught off guard in matters of the heart.
Our proprietary algorithm analyzes their entire social history to discover shared interests you didn't know you had.
Know their favorite coffee shop, gym, and weekend spots before you 'accidentally' bump into them.
Identify mutual connections and engineer the perfect organic introduction through friends of friends.
AI predicts what they'll like next so you can discover it first. Be ahead of the conversation.
"Field research has never been this effortless."
β Pre-Dater User Guide, Chapter 3
Our proven methodology has helped millions find their perfect match. Here's how.
Enter their name or social handle. We'll take it from there.
Our AI examines their complete digital footprint across platforms.
Receive a compatibility report with personalized talking points.
Use location insights to plan your 'coincidental' first meeting.
Bond over your surprisingly aligned interests. Magic happens.
Hear from our community of successful pre-daters who found love through preparation.
I knew her favorite band, her go-to coffee order, and her ideal vacation spot before we even met. She thought it was fate. It was Pre-Dater.
Marcus T.
Engaged after 3 months
Thanks to Pre-Dater, I 'accidentally' ran into him at his gym five times before he finally noticed me. Now we're inseparable!
Jennifer K.
In a relationship
We have so much in common! He doesn't know I researched him for three weeks, and honestly? He never will.
Alex M.
Happily dating
Choose the level of insight that matches your commitment to finding love.
Perfect for the curious romantic
For those serious about love
Leave nothing to chance
All plans include our 30-day "Love or Your Money Back" guarantee. No questions asked*.
Join over 2 million pre-daters who've discovered that preparation is the secret to true love.